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The Thin Line Between Love and Friendship!

Three years back,

When I Just entered the last year of my school, 12th standard , Board exams nervousness and school-leaving nostalgia dwelt together in each other.

May 2011 - Summer Vacations.

Holiday time meant grandpa's home, Indore.

Cousin sisters re-bonding, Chilling with home cooked love and pampering, Ah! The good days!

Back then my Cousin sister and me had found a new Hobby,

Walking in the Garden nearby discussing life, boys and all things random. 

One Monotonous evening,

Walking in the Park, One of her classmates - Mr.X came to meet us, For a Simple Hi-Hello! 

But, With him had come a unknown guy - Mr.Y, his neighbor and friend. He brought him along so he doesn't feel nervous among two ladies.

First impression said Mr.Y is conserved and a bit on the tough side with that not so clean shaven look and plastic smile.

Though I Was supposed to talk to Mr.X that day as I was the one who had come as a guest , His ultra boring persona disinterested me, I needed to divert my mind to make him feel I am busy in something important.

Then suddenly I realized Mr. Y is standing there, alone and composed. I Decided to know him a bit, escaping from Mr. X,

That's how it all started.

We started talking and our conversation went on for hours and into exchanging numbers till it was 10 p.m , we had to rush home but with a promise to stay in touch!

*There was a spark that shined, a great friendship was on it's way!*

Since then,

We met often, talked for hours on phone, discussed everything.

Topics started emerging from nowhere, it felt good for we were compatible, we understood each other.

Some Months Later -

Back to school after holidays , Busy preparing for exams, 

One day , The Phone beeped, 

                                       *One Message Received* ,

It was Mr. Y, 

He said, *I wanted to tell you this from so long, but it somewhat couldn't happen. Don't you think there is something more to our friendship that is happening but we aren't admitting it, I have started falling for you, I have started loving you, 

Will you be my girlfriend?" 

I Was Stunned , Shocked, Surprised.

I Somewhere knew this was happening, I could sense it in our conversations but I feared to admit it. Maybe a failed past relationship was the reason , I didn't want to commit to something I know I wouldn't be able to give my 100% to.

But I didn't wanted to disappoint him , I was swinging on both the ends of a See saw with no one around to keep a balance. 

After giving it a deep thought ,

I Told him , 

"I Will have to think about this, I Like you but this is love or something else isn't yet clear to me, We will talk about this when I come to Indore after my exams. I don't want to divert my attention from my boards which holds not just mine but my parent's expectations."

He Understood but was reluctant to accept. He wanted to hear those magical three words, He wanted to tell the whole world he has fallen in love, He wanted to feel the reality better than his dreams ever were.

These childish efforts of his took our messages on a different notch altogether , now it consisted of the sweet teenage love aroma , caring of each other, getting possessive and worried on matters that weren't that a big thing.

This continued for 5-6 months approximately,

Then as they say , "No matter how much you try, what's not in your fate, doesn't happen".

It happened like a fairy came in my dream and gave me the lesson of a lifetime,

She said, "You are young, You have the whole bunch of opportunities around you, you have to focus on that one dream you are dreaming since forever, Men will come and men will go, but age and success are for you to sow."

She was right. I had to focus on my goals because for love there is a whole life afterwards .

So I decided to speak to him and tell him my decision.

I Told him , "Sorry, We cannot get together , Because We are not going to live in a common city ever and a long distance relationship is something difficult to manage and impossible to sustain, Maybe you will one day find a better girl than me , I wish you luck, We shall stay best friends forever but nothing more our fate could see. Stay in touch 

Mr. Y".

I never fell in love with him, So it didn't affect me, but it did to him , I know it did. He didn't tell me anything but he had a difficult time accepting this fact . 

I Knew he will get over it, After all , Time heals everything, It teaches us to be strong at our broken points.

After 3 Years ,

Now, Here I am in a completely different city than he is , working towards my dream, taking a step at a time, struggling to make both ends meet,

On the other hand, He is working for his Job, to make his parents proud.

We talk but not as frequently, we still are great friends , we discuss almost everything but are hardly able to meet, we fight, we tease each other , we are the typical friends, Two idiots in this world who are and shall always be there for each other.

We will find our soul mates one day and get married , attend each other's wedding , feel awkward , laugh it out, click crazy pictures and dance like crazy .

Maybe, This was how it was meant to be, This was what was designed by God for us,

And we are adjusted to it.

After all,

I Gained a Best Guy friend who is like a star in my Universe , I may not see him every day but I know he's there .

"Earning Friends is more Important than earning Money, When you earn one, keep it in a safe purse, the purse of love, trust and freedom."

Optiaxis - Your Eye's best Friend!

This Winter chills gives eyes the most thrills. Be it the dust, The dew, the Moisture, or just poor eyesight ,
It is difficult to deal with Life.

But ,
Recently, Scrolling the Net I came Across a brilliant location for all my eye care needs.

Go to the link and know the beauty -
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Benefits -

-> Affordable Rates - Isn't it cool when you get something that is worth your expectation and gives you money satisfaction too.
That hole in the Pocket is too embarrassing , Right?

-> Comfortable in Handling - Sunglasses, lenses, Eye wear can get too Hassle much if not comfy in wearing.
But this, Is a gem in revelation! 

-> Embellishes your Face and gives a great Impact to enhance you Face - In Winters when you are mostly caught up in sneezing and red eyes / nose and what not, Hiding them under a Stylish eyewear is always a boon in disguise. 

Why should you prefer Optiaxix ,

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So, 

These winters,

Put on your Urban Chic Sunglasses , And dance the blues away!

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VH1 Supersonic - The Party of My Dreams!

Firstly , Let me tell you,

If you don't know about this, you are wasting your Time,

And if you are not going here, you are wasting your Life.

What am I talking about?

Yes, You guessed it right.

It's the BIGGEST BEACH MUSIC FESTIVAL - VH1 SUPERSONIC 2013 !

" Experience the oneness of music at Candolim Beach from December 26 to 30; Nikhil Chinapa partners with Live Viacom18 for the event. "

Why I want to be there?

-> Life's a Party and I am the Lady! When they both meet, it creates 'History' :)

-> World’s best artistes will be uniting on one stage to dole out pulsating beats that will transport music enthusiasts into an un-parallel world of unadulterated music and dance.

-> I Have been struggling to get to Goa , to party and to let that stress out of the daily routine. A Perfect Getaway is VH1 Supersonic 2013!

-> Vh1 Supersonic 2013 aspires to give serious music lovers an electrifying experience capturing some of the finest artists from the dance music community across the globe.

-> Always the first to define trends and lead by example, Vh1 brings with it immense experience of international music genres and high octane music events .

-> A festival dedicated to blue-blooded dance music fans for whom music is a way of life, it will witness a constellation of international and home-grown talent performing at the festival.

-> It gives me a chance to Unleash my Blogging potential too. Being a lover of capturing moments into memories through my camera and pen , I Can enjoy the life of Glitter on my Heels that shine through my eyes!


Some Quick facts about VH1 Supersonic ->

* LIVE Viacom 18 in association with M/s Starlight Events & Ent Pvt. Ltd are conceptualizing this oneness of music that is VH1 Supersonic 2013.

* Vh1 SUPERSONIC 2013 has received the State Level Event Permission Committee (SLEPC) to host this festival. 

* India's much loved DJ, VJ and dance music promoter; Nikhil Chinapa with his extensive understanding of the Indian dance music industry will be adding another dimension to the festival in the capacity of ‘Festival Director'.

I Can get into my favorite Shorts and dress , forget what the world says, live in to dance to the beats of oneness and goodness,

See people like me who enjoy life as it comes,

Drown myself in tasty food and drinks,

Be mad, madder and maddest ,

Because,

Life's too short to be boring , Life's too short to not dance and life's too short to avoid VH1 Supersonic 2013 in GOA! :)

The Beach's Calling it's Beach Baby to write down about it in her blog, Be the Official Blogger, To dance in it's tunes, to socialize with people I never knew, and to be a part of VH1 Supersonic , Lenovo #MyVIBE Super Squad! 

Guys and Girls!

Come make dance music your religion of choice and the soundtrack of your life. Experience this ONENESS at Candolim Beach, Goa - a land synonymous with timeless festival magic, to celebrate friendship and love amidst euphoric music. 

P.S - Those who cannot make it to GOA, Stay tuned to my blog , for I May join the Lenovo VibeX SuperSquad and be the Official Blogger of VH1 Supersonic #MyVibe :) 

Isn't it cool?

For more Updates,

Follow Lenovo and VH1 Supersonic on Twitter -> 

@Lenovo_in 

@VH1Supersonic 

And on Facebook -> https://www.facebook.com/Vh1Supersonic

Start Packing, For Goa's Calling!

And , Make some noise for VH1 Supersonic is here in just 3 days time! :)

Say "Yes" to "P.A.S.S" and "No" to Rash!

                                           

*Oh! That Beard looks so good on David Beckham , I Should do it too ,
He is loved by Girls, I Will get it too!*

These lines are constantly going on in a Guy's head , Why not?
Everyone wants attention.
But the point to understand is , "What will get you attention?"

With David Beckham, It's not his mustache , beard or unclean shaved look,
It's his football skills and personality.
Even if he gets clean shaved, Girls are bound to get mad and stay like that,

Okay, Still not convinced?

Let me tell you some not-so-good effects of that Unclean Stubble -
- Cuts and abrasions
- Irritation and redness
- Stinging and burning
- Razor burn, ingrown hairs or razor bumps
Most Important,
- Getting aloof from hot chicks in town for they sure don't want to date a man who looks like he doesn't take care of himself and gives smelly vibes .

So,
Boys, Men and all the Male who want to sail ( Not on water, In Life ) ,
Remember,
to keep your face clean shaved , classy and attract chick flicks in masses! ;)

                       
           "Life is too Short to Hide your Handsome Face behind that Unclean Beard" :D 

* This is my Second post as a part of the Protest Against Smelly Stubble Activity (P.A.S.S.)      in association with BlogAdda.

* This post is a response to anita's tag on her blog entry 
   " pass-with-jai-siya-ram. "

You can read my Previous Post on P.A.S.S too -
-> the-man-with-unclean-stubble.

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The Man With Unclean Stubble!

                                       

Not so Long Ago , A New Guy entered our class , I Was in 8th Std. back then,
Immature but surviving the Chaos.

That Lunchtime, Me and my best friend giggling our talks was when a new cute dude just passes our way ,
He walked in the same class as I was ,
The clean shaven , as Indians say , "Gora - Chitta Munda " just bowled me over.
I was Stumped,
It was love or just attraction , Can't say but whenever I Remember that look , Goosebumps are on it's way.

I Wish I Could , But I can't reveal his name over here ( Who knows, He might just go through my Blog and Shhhh! )
So, I Would refer to him as "Mr X."

So, I Was small , Could never express my feelings.
What else can you expect from a shy girl at 14?

Days passed, years went off , One day I found out his dad is getting a transfer in another country so he will be leaving the school.

*Sob , Sob *

I Cried for hours and days to come.
I Was in 10th then,
But who can stop what has to happen, He went.

I Learnt to live without staring at him once a day ( at least , sometimes it was many times a day , Blush )  

But, As they say, The World is Round.

What goes round, comes round.

I Saw him again after 5-6 years, In College.

Yes SAME COLLEGE.

Oh, So you just felt we had a happy ending and blah blah!

Sorry,
The story takes a U-turn here.

I Saw him Changed.
He wasn't like he was before.

His Clean Shaven Look had given way to an Unclean Mustache look, It looked Shabby, It looked like he had given up peace for some war and was going to bomb the place,
He looked like he was behind Bars for years.

Oh My!
What did my cute crush do to himself!

He blasted the balloon of my feelings and entered a "No-No Dating" list of Men in my life.

I Can't develop that love for him now, It's gone, Lost somewhere in the hair on his face, that could have been controlled.

Yes, Boys and Men, Keep it Clear, Keep it Clean Shaven, Show us your face, it wasn't given to you to hide it behind those shabby hair.

* Ending on a Search for that Perfect Clean Shaven Man - I Will Find him Soon * :D

* This is my First post as a part of the Protest Against Smelly Stubble Activity (P.A.S.S.) in association with BlogAdda.

* This post is a response to deckleedge's tag on his blog entry 

" Barbaadi.com "

Colors!

                            Importance of Color Play in the Bedroom!

Colors are life!

People have said earlier and so do now ,

"Don't stay Dull, Add some colors to your life".

And rightly so.

After a hard day at work, we come back to our resting beds, that lay comfortingly in our Bedrooms.

Yes, They wait for us since eternity , they stay still but never cease to fall ill.

But What do we do for our bedroom?

NOTHING.

It's time to think about them , think about the part of our lives that gives us what we owe our success to.

Sleep, Health , Pleasure, Work .. All our somehow started and concluded in our bedroom.

A Young Couple finds pleasure ,

A Child finds his toys,

A Working Woman her necessary beauty nap ,

While Teenage children their dream crush.

A Bright Color in a Bedroom will enhance it's beauty, will double the energy and will relocate the prettiness in it's sanity , revamping the energy and bringing you back to bliss .

Blue Color in my Bedroom adds a peacefully calm feel to it which lets me concentrate on my health and study needs whereas also fills me with activeness when I open my eyes to the dawn of a new seed!

Every morning , I Wake up to Shine, To Calmness, Forgetting to whine!

This is what Coloring my Bedroom Blue did to me.

A Short Brief about some colors and their effects according to your personality that may help you decide what color your bedroom should be -

White , Peach , Light Blue , Yellow - Light Colors = For the Highly Active Kind .

Reason = This will calm you down. Too Active means aggression is a high , Lowering down will be done through light colors in your bedroom hun! :)

Red , Purple , Green , Violet, Pink - Dark Colors = For the Shy, Lazy Kind.

Reason = You know you need to up your oomph quotient, Afterall interacting with people is not a crime to be committed. It is a beautiful feeling, It makes you feel alive, feel the power of togetherness.

Dark colors will help you get up with a spark , unleash the "Me" in "You" that will drive you to move forward.

Conclusion - So, Try a shade opposite of your nature, And Let your bedroom do the talking!

Shine on with Glitter on your Heels,

For everyday holds in it a possibility of a better tomorrow,

Wake up to a new you!

:)

P.S -

This post is a part of the Fab Blogger contest by FabFurnish.com, India's largest online home store. Get the best deals for bedroom furniture, wall clocks and <a href="http://www.fabfurnish.com/bed-bath/bed-sheet-sets/">bed sheets</a> online.